Gay Man Pays Wife For Divorce

Gay Man Pays Wife For Divorce


A man in China has paid 800,000 yuan (US$130,000) in a divorce settlement because he didn’t tell his wife that he was gay.

The couple agreed following mediation by a court in the eastern province of Zhejiang, according to local news reports.

The 27-year-old woman, surnamed Wang, from Ningbo, thought she had found the man of her dreams when she met her 32-year-old future husband, surnamed Zhou. She found him very humorous and charming, and to her amazement, he proposed to her on the evening they first met.

They dated for about four months before Wang accepted Zhou’s proposal at a party, and they married in March.

On their wedding night, Zhou slept in a separate room, saying he had a bad cold, the court heard. And a week later, he had still refused to move back into their bedroom.

When Wang demanded an explanation, Zhou took out a credit card and said, “I know I owe you much and I will try to compensate you in other ways.” He said that his wife could buy whatever she wanted with the card, said the newspaper.

In the months that followed, Wang became suspicious as her husband always left home quickly after receiving calls from a man.

One night she followed him to a bar and found him with another man with whom he seemed intimate, reported the newspaper. When Wang confronted her husband, he admitted that he was gay and that he married due to pressure from his parents.

He suggested that they stay married to keep the fact that he was gay a secret from his parents and friends, but Wang filed a lawsuit late last month, demanding a divorce and compensation.

Zhou agreed to pay her 800,000 yuan and signed the divorce papers after court mediation.

Many gay men in China marry and have children because of pressure from their parents and to avoid social stigma.

Most Chinese believe continuing a bloodline is an obligation for men.

An estimated 80 to 90 percent of gay men in China marry, according to retired Qingdao University Professor Zhang Beichuan. He said that there are nearly 10 million Chinese couples in such marriages.

The issue was in the spotlight last March after a court in Chengdu, capital of southwestern China’s Sichuan Province, heard how a woman committed suicide after her husband announced that he was gay on a social networking website.

Luo Li, a 31-year-old teacher with a PhD, leapt from her 13th-floor apartment in June 2012, after her husband, Cheng Wei, came out online.

Her parents demanded 630,000 yuan (US$101,304) in compensation but a district court ruled that Luo was responsible for her actions.

Gay Conversion Manual In HK Library

Gay Conversion Manual In HK Library

The Central Library in Hong Kong has found itself on the battlefield for gay equality as local activist Betty Grisoni, co-founder of the lesbian organisation Les Peches and co-director of the LGBT Pink Season cultural festival, demanded library officials run a disclaimer to go with their inclusion of the controversial book “A Parent’s Guide to Preventing Homosexuality”.

Written by American psychologist Joseph Nicolosi, the book classifies homosexuality as a mental disorder and promotes “gay conversion therapy,” the pseudo-scientific idea that homosexual men and women can be made heterosexual through medical or psychological means.

Grisoni is demanding the library put a warning on the book because it espouses practices universally denounced by health ministries and medical organizations throughout the West. Gay conversion therapy is banned in California and New Jersey, and the director of a gay conversation camp in South Africa is on trial for murder after three boys under his supervision died.

“Given widespread virulent prejudice, discrimination and stereotyping against sexual minorities, publications directly promoting homophobia should be carefully handled by public libraries.”

Grisoni added that she does not think the book should be removed, but that potential readers should be made aware of its shaky scientific principles.

Chinese activists recently took unprecedented action by launching a lawsuit against a gay conversion clinic in Chongqing, which is an ongoing case.

China LGBT Consumer Lifestyle Survey

China LGBT Consumer Lifestyle Survey

Community Marketing & Insights (CMI), in partnership with Shanghai LGBT Professionals, Dan Lan / Blued, the L, and supported by 20 LGBT cooperative partners across China, are conducting the 1st Annual China LGBT Community Consumer Lifestyle Survey to learn more about the consumer habits of this unique group of Chinese customers. The results of the study will help companies explore market opportunities in the Chinese LGBT community. This is the first time such data is being collected in a methodically vigorous fashion in China, using sophisticated research software and analysis. An unprecedented eight thousand strong sample size is expected by survey close.

The results of this research will be published in a report to be released at the 1st Annual China Pink Market Conference with the expected attendance of 150 Fortune 500 company market leaders, major advertising firms and agencies. Thomas Roth, President, Community Marketing & Insights will share key findings of the inaugural China LGBT Community Consumer Lifestyle Report, highlighting international case studies with local relevance. A panel of prominent local and Fortune 500 business leaders will then discuss LGBT niche marketing and outreach opportunities.

“This breakthrough study of LGBTs in China is the most comprehensive and widest-reaching ever, and reflects the diversity of the global LGBT community,” said David Paisley, Senior Research Director at CMI. “This timely study provides businesses and the public with practical insights into the depth and breadth of the Chinese LGBT community, which CMI considers to be the most important emerging market in the world,” Paisley continued. The partnership of CMI with LGBT media and organizations across China provides confidence that the research accurately represents Chinese LGBTs today.

“There are more than 70 million LGBT people in China, equivalent to the UK’s population,” said Blued’s CEO Geng Le, the largest mobile ap for gay people in China today with eight million active users. “Gay and lesbian consumers are a force to be reckoned with, and we rely heavily on mobile and Internet usage; at rates twice that of the general market. This is a market growth opportunity without national borders. After two rounds of capital investment, our team has grown to 37 employees, of which 34 are LGBT, making us a leading pink employer as well.”

“Women are a mainstay of e-commerce in China today. With LGBT consumers acknowledged as increasingly important, the lesbian dimension brings unique market opportunities,” said Anson Lu, Founder of the L. “As the largest and most advanced lesbian social app in China today, and the first to receive one million RMB in venture capital funding, the commercial opportunities ahead in the pink marketplace have never looked brighter for us.”

Shanghai LGBT Professionals, a business network for gay & lesbian employees in China and platform for dialogue and partnership with companies on LGBT corporate equality, is proud to be conference organizer and survey partner after holding the 1st Annual Corporate Diversity & Inclusion Conference: China HR Policies Meet LGBT Employees earlier this year. “Tens of millions of gay and lesbian customers exist in China, but brands don’t yet possess the data or cultural familiarity needed to take advantage,” said Steven Paul Bielinski, Founder of Shanghai LGBT Professionals. “With this information, sectors ranging from IT, to travel, hospitality, luxury goods, FMCG, finance, and beyond will have a better understanding of the hopes & dreams of the LGBT community in China. When brands reach out to communicate a diverse and inclusive message, both sides profit.”
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